Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord – Marrying Mesui, and Other such Clan Leaders

So whats this about? Mesui is the leader of the Khergit clan of the Khuzait faction, she is also married to Bagai, another noble of the Khuzait. Mesui is also too old to be married at the age of 27. These 3 factors all cause Mesui to be unmarryable under standard circumstances.

This method should work for any hero who is not a faction leader A.K.A Rhagaea, there’s a seperate mod solely for her on nexusmods.

What’s This About?

Mesui is the leader of the Khergit clan of the Khuzait faction, she is also married to Bagai, another noble of the Khuzait. Mesui is also too old to be married at the age of 27. These 3 factors all cause Mesui to be unmarryable under standard circumstances.

This method should work for any hero who is not a faction leader A.K.A Rhagaea, there’s a seperate mod solely for her on nexusmods.

So How Do We Acquire The Mongol Waifu?

So how do we acquire the waifu? This requires us to have cheats enabled, either through the Develop Console mod on nexusmods.

Once that is installed and deployed, you must press Ctrl+` in order to open the console.

From there, enter these values into the console one after the other.

  • campaign.set_hero_age Mesui 27
  • campaign.change_clan_leader Khergit
  • campaign.kill_hero Bagai

These three commands will:

Set Mesui’s age to 27, making her of marrying age. And no, I am not aware what the hell that means for Nayantai and Yana.

Changes the leader of the Khergit clan to another hero in the clan, for me it swapped it to Bagai, who’s about to go ♥ing bye-bye.

Kills Bagai, this is required as there is no unmarry command, therefore just ♥ing kill him via console command. If you decide to kill Bagai manually, you’re gonna have to do alot more work to get Mesui to not immediately gouge your eyes out with a polearm.

So What Now?

Now you pursue Mesui, or whoever it is you are performing this act on, as you normally would via flirting and marriage offers, you could also use the command:

  • campaign.marry_player_with_hero Mesui

In order to immediately marry her if you wanna skip the whole romance…

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Written by: Papamusha